Welcome to the 2016 Month of Letters Challenge!

February 1, 2016 in Journal

This repeats the text of the challenge in graphic formAs we start off the fourth year of LetterMo, let me talk a bit about what I’ve learned about the Challenge.

It’s really not about getting letters, it’s about reaching out. A lot of folks sign up, hoping they’ll get mail. While that does happen, it’s ultimately not the goal of the challenge. The goal is to make a connection. If you get an email back, or a text, or a phone call, or a facebook/tweet/tumblr/thingie, then you’ve made a connection. That’s the important part.

An audience of one.  This month, I want you to slow down and really think about who you are writing to. So many other parts of our lives wind up being a performance because the internet (which I love) is a vast public space. Physical mail is intimate and designated for one person. Think about that person when you write.

It doesn’t have to be fancy. You know in December, when that first card arrives? There’s a moment of joy, because someone thought of you. The card maybe just has their signature, and it doesn’t matter that there’s not a fancy three page letter with perfect penmanship, because they thought about you. When the challenge says that you can send anything, we mean it. You’re mailing tangible proof that you thought about someone. That’s special enough.

It’s like time travel. No really, bear with me for a minute. When I write a letter, Present Me is writing to Future You. When you receive it, Present You is reading something from Past Me. So that means that what you are capturing with your mail is a specific, concrete moment in time. It’s okay to share the small details of that moment. For instance, as I’m writing this, my cat Sadie is curled up on the chair next to me. She’s snoring. I wish you could hear it, because it is adorable.

There is no wrong way. With the challenge a lot of people write to me. A LOT of people. I’ve seen things written in pencil on paper torn out of a notebook, letters typed on the computer and printed, incredibly gorgeous mail art, postcards with three words on them, and once, a pigeon. Every single one of those represents the moment when someone thought about me. I love them all. There’s no wrong way.  (I mean, besides the things that the federal government won’t allow you to mail. So don’t get arrested okay?)

Send mail to people who never get it. It’s tempting to just send to people who will answer you, but think about the folks who never get mail. Which brings me to the final thing, which is kind of weird. I’ll be here all month, writing along with you, but I have a favor. Don’t write to me this year. I know. It’s weird, right? Here’s the thing. I love getting your letters, but Rule 2 means that I have to respond to them. I realized that because of that, I’ve never had the real Month of Letters experience. This year, what I really want is to write to folks that probably aren’t going to write back to me, like my nephew and my aunt and my mentor and my friend with brain cancer and my favorite author and… you get the idea. BUT there a ton of people in the forums who want penpals. I get a lot of letters. Why not share the love and write to someone who doesn’t?

5 responses to Welcome to the 2016 Month of Letters Challenge!

  1. That’s a lovely post, Mary. I expect it’ll come to mind often over the next few weeks.
    During the first Month of Letters I sent a fan letter to an author whose books I love, and was thrilled to receive a postcard in response. I’m sure my letter was just one among many she received every year, but when I learned not long ago that she’d died the following year I was glad I’d ignored my fears of seeming fangirlish and reached out when I had the chance.
    The most recent episode of public radio’s This American Life included a rebroadcast of a story (originally aired in 2007) about a student teachers felt they’d failed to reach. The piece is about 12 minutes long. It starts at 42:05 in the show, and ends by describing how meaningful even a brief written note can be to the recipient.
    http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/578/i-thought-i-knew-you

  2. Bravo for Mary!
    I try to write to the less regular people as part of this. Eg today I posted a letter to an elderly relation.
    OK Mary, so I won’t write to you (thank you for your card reply last year). I do, however, send you ‘electronic’ greetings for a very happy birthday! 🙂
    Thank you for organising this. I love it!

  3. You’re on Mary. HELPFUL TIP: For those of you who desire to write to someone who will not write back and who likely NEEDS a letter, here are 5 people in need. https://moreloveletters.squarespace.com/the-letter-requests (Letters must be postmarked to them by Feb 19th!)
    — If you’re wondering about the link I just provided above, the organization, see the “2nd” TED Talk here: http://lettermo.com/topic/the-countdown/ Keep Scribbling!

  4. Opps Mary, I write in the morning, coffee cup a hand before I log on or is it “in” to the world wide web, and this am I wrote and posted a birthday card to you because that handy dandy organizing calendar I down loaded from Nina had your Birthday prominently displayed. So tomorrow I’ll send a thank you card, no response expected. Next year I shall heed your plea.

  5. When my niece turned 5, I knew I wouldn’t get a chance to see her very often, so I started writing to her. I knew she couldn’t read them yet, but it’s such a thrill to get something with _your_ name on it. Then I started writing to my aunts, all five of them. And I added my two surviving great-aunts. When my namesake turned five, I added her to the list. I write about 4-10 times a year, and one aunt replies and my niece started replying, her freshman year of college. Lettermo is an extension of that for me.

    I’ve also written to military personnel stationed overseas and to random ‘sick person wants cards.’ Sometimes I include a little something; a bit of tatted lace, some flat origami, or whatever occurs to me and will fit into the envelope. There’s the fun of creating my own stationery, too.

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